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Tools Workshop

Tools Workshop

All ISA Members are encouraged to attend a Tools Workshop in person or online. Workshops are offered approximately once a quarter or as needed. In person workshops are 3 hours and online workshops are split into two 90-minute sessions. Workshops provide an explanation of important ISA Tools and offer group discussion for each tool to share ideas and experiences.

Topics Include

• Self Care: Learning ways and activities that we can pamper ourselves through difficult times

• Circles of ISA: A visual categorization of the behaviors for which we want to be held accountable

• Boundaries: An explanation of ISA’s views of boundaries and their importance

• Peer Support:  Peer support is vital to our recovery; learn how to reach out for support, encouragement, and accountability with a           Program Call Guide

• Mindfulness, acceptance, managing triggers, …and others

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Upcoming Workshops




Infidelity Survivors Anonymous is pleased to invite you to join us February 3-5, 2023 at Camp Allen in Navasota, Texas for our sixth annual ISA retreat. This event is for Female Partners of Betrayal Trauma. We are excited to announce that our speaker this year will be Dr. Jake Porter. 




ISA has reserved a fixed number of hotel rooms. The weekend package includes two nights stay and six meals beginning with dinner after check-in on Friday evening through lunch after check-out on Sunday. The Camp Allen campus includes walking trails, activities and 1000 acres of natural setting for rest and meditation. There will be planned group sessions mixed with time for relaxation and fellowship. 


The retreat will begin with check-in and registration on Friday from 3-6pm. After registration, dinner will be served followed by an evening session. Saturday will include a full day of varying types of sessions and activities.  There will be additional sessions Sunday morning, and the retreat will close with check-out at 11:30am.  There will be lunch at noon for those who can and want to eat before they leave. 


The cost of a single private room for the weekend package is $350 per person. The cost of the weekend package with double occupancy is $250 per person. We encourage double occupancy so that more members can attend.  If you are choosing double occupancy please discuss with other ISA members to plan for and specify a roommate during registration. If you do not specify a roommate during registration you may contact to revise and add a roommate before the retreat. If a roommate is not specified, one will be assigned as the retreat gets closer. Reservations are on a first come first serve basis. 


A limited number of scholarships for half of the double occupancy rate are available on a first come first serve basis. If you are in need of assistance and would like to apply for a scholarship, inquiries must be made prior to registration by contacting 


Cancellations for this event are non-refundable. 


At this time all ISA meetings are CLOSED meetings. CLOSED meetings are limited to individuals who have been directly affected by the trauma of infidelity.


Dr. Jake Porter is a Board Certified Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist, APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and the Founder of Daring Ventures Counseling, Coaching, and Consultation.  Dr. Porter utilizes insights from developmental psychology, interpersonal neurobiology, and spirituality to help his clients experience greater healing and freedom in their lives. He enjoys teaching as Assistant Professor of Counseling at Kairos University's Houston Graduate School of Theology, where he also is Lead Professor of the Doctor of Professional Counseling Program. Jake lives in Houston with his wife, Kristen, and daughter, Magnolia Jane.

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