As our name suggests, the ISA fellowship was created to support individuals who have suffered the consequences of any one of the following betrayals in a relationship:

  • Sexual or Emotional Affairs
  • Pornography and Cybersex
  • Compulsive Sexual Behavior / Sexual Addiction (e.g., prostitution, strip clubs, massage parlors, adult bookstores)
  • Other Deviant Sexual Behavior

We affirm the following:

  • We have experienced painful betrayals and our recovery is our responsibility.
  • We recover when we choose to take care of ourselves.
  • We take responsibility for our physical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual well-being.
  • We have all the tools needed to recover. We do not use excuses for not applying these tools.
  • We are individuals, not extensions of our partners. Our partners’ personal issues do not qualify us as having a disease or an illness.
  • While we work on our own unhealthy beliefs and behaviors, we do not share the responsibility for our partners’ infidelities.
  • We focus on our own healing and do not ruminate on our partners’ behaviors.
  • We focus on our own spiritual growth.

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